Stop Overthinking your First Message.
Get clever, confident DM openers for anyone you want to talk to — no awkward pauses, just good vibes.
How It Works
Three easy steps to send a perfect first message.
Choose your vibe
Pick the mood — friendly, funny, or flirty. We’ll tailor your DM opener to match your energy.
Click “Generate.
Get instant message ideas you can copy, tweak, and send in seconds.
Start the chat
Send your message and get the conversation going — no awkward intros, just connection.
Real DM Openers People Actually Use
Try one of these — or hit “Generate” to get a fresh idea every time.
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Hey 👋 I just came across your profile — you seem like someone I’d actually enjoy talking to.
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Ok serious question… what’s your go-to comfort food when life’s chaotic? 😅
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You have good taste. I can tell from your posts 😏 — what’s something you’re obsessed with right now?
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